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Build Your Confidence

Are you a teenager? Have you ever walk to your mirror and ask : “Mirror…mirror who is the most beautiful girl in this world?” but the mirror answer : It is not you?

Maybe your hair too blonde, your skin too pale or your hair too curly and your skin too dark. Maybe your eyes too small or too blue. You don’t like to what you have now. But…wait! Do you ever see the butterfly metamorphosis? It is from bad larva, then change to a scary catterpillar after its long mediation the catterpillar change into beautifull butterfly. So, you do.
Doesn’t matter your hair too blonde or to curly, you are too short or too high. You always nodded your head when you are walking because you are afraid that a man you love will look at you. Well, you should know that boy or man never pay attention to your face or body shape (if you had a mind that your physicall beauty could attract a man you like), but the inner beauty is the most important to attract your love. And you can build your own inner beauty. It is rather easy to build your inner beauty than you change your performance in the expensive barber shop. Check this out and be a beauty butterfly.

Say in your heart, “I am pretty!” : this could help to change your negative mind. Say in when you feel that you are very ugly. Or maybe you can sing this words, remember Josh Groban’s song “You are love”, sing it time to time or sing another applicable song. Then, smile : smile will make you more sweet. A boy will attract to a girl who has nice smile. If you shy to start your smile, go to mirror and smile there. Sweet smile is not depending to your lips shape but it is depending on how honest your heart is.

Do not afraid to beginning a conversation. If you do not speak, nobody will know how beautiful your voice is. Well, do not hide those beauty pearl. Then, try another activity that you like most. Maybe you like to know about technology, why don’t you open the web about technology and discuss with them. Or maybe you are interesting in sport or music. Well, found out more about that so when you talk to someone who interesting to these things, you will speak as much as you can. You will not only become a listener but also speaker.

Listening is the most important. It is easy to speak than to listening. Someone will appreciate you because you listened to what they say. Also, with listening you will find lots of things. It is mean you are learning a new thing.

What about dress and performance? The key is do not to be a follower but be trendsetter. You can make your own trend. See the mode on tv or magazine? Do they always be the same in every decade? Mode is always repeating in other decade. Such as tight shirt, once it is become a model in some decade and now, it is repeated again in this decade.

Make up? See the make up code. Do not go out with thick lipstick or thick powder or thick eyeshadow. Be natural, you could try some natural spa of your own. Refresh your skin but do not dream to change it, remember you are beautifull with your condition right now. You just need to refresh it.

Well, isn’t easy to build your inner beauty? For more tips in build a confidence alwasy visit this web, you will find more about it.

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Posted by admin on Monday, November 5th, 2007


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